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The Dalai Lama: An Outstanding Example of Resiliency

The 14th Dalai Lama was in Portland, Oregon, for three days on May 13-15, 2001. To prepare for his visit, I went to several films and saw how he was located after the death of the 13th Dalai Lama, how he was raised, China's invasion of Tibet, the atrocities done by Chinese troops, how he escaped and transferred the seat of Tibetan Buddhism to India, and the way he has conducted himself while feeling the tragedy of 1.2 million Tibetans being killed by Chinese troops. (An excellent videotape about all this is the Martin Scorsese film Kundun.)

On May 14-15, 2001, I was part of an intimate group of 4300 at the University of Portland for two mornings, to hear Buddhist teachings by the Dalai Lama. I came away impressed with him as a teacher and as a living example of what he believes. Although I have had some familiarity with Buddhism for many years, for the first time I experienced profound wisdom in Buddhism. I can understand why the name "Dalai Lama" means "Ocean of Wisdom."

I am also deeply impressed with how the Dalai Lama remains silent about what the Chinese have done. Resiliency often depends on being able to not blame others for one's reaction to adversity, to let the past go, and have empathy for adversaries. He gave me new ways of describing this process. He expresses no anger or bitterness, only compassion. His ability to live a life much different than what he was raised to expect is an exceptional example of resiliency. He has adapted to extremely adverse, profoundly disrupting events and found a way bring much good to the entire world. How could he do this? We find clues in his teachings.

The security at the University of Portland was tightly enforced. We had to stand in very long lines on a cold, windy, rainy morning while security guards scrutinized each person entering the Chiles Center. They would not allow anyone to enter with a backpack, large purse, or bag of any kind. When the Dalai Lama was on stage, he was flanked by several dozen Buddhist monks. Over a dozen secret service agents in black suits wearing radio earpieces rotated around the periphery.

The Dalai Lama spoke in English at first. He said that Buddhism has no deity or God to pray to, and that there is no conflict between Buddhism and religions. Anyone who practices a religion can also learn and benefit from Buddha's teachings without giving up their religion.

When he began to speak in more depth about Buddhism, he spoke in Tibetan through his interpreter--after joking that when he spoke in English "sometimes I don't understand what I am saying!"

Some insights that I heard the Dalai Lama express include these:

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